嘩, 好Love 呀!
天寒地涷，有mud好過一齊瞓?
呢排佢地成日一齊瞓沙發...
豬噹中2望鏡頭..令噹，my dear baby!
豬噹撐大佬?
e+似D兄弟mo?
超中2佢地一齊坐呀或瞓呀...
Don & Dor: 哈哈....老細大驚小怪，Yo, 有咩好影?
老細﹕中2影呀，特別您兩件一齊時侯...
好sweet，咁好既...
好Warm呀!
5想起身，暖Love Love...
(暖)Love Love in xmas! 瞓多陣先...
福山雅治 「Heart of Xmas 」﹕
天氣轉冷時，我不在家，媽說不覺佢地異樣... 但星期五晚回來，開了暖爐，兩件豬跑了入佢地間屋，好暖咁樣...
豬噹熊抱大佬，好暖呀!
一齊瞓，幾好... 不過一陣後，大佬走佬，始終一個貓瞓舒服D..
今日有陽光，晒下佢地張床，豬噹又去瞓兼晒太陽，Vit D 話咁易攝取到喇!
豬噹大只左又令左! 令仔(我5怕醜架，我兩件仔令要讚，佢地先至proud of 佢地嘛)!
Don Don Chu咁叻，Jor Jor Law 梗係5弱，一於「佢又晒，我又晒，moh哂3富，moh哂鞋」，Dor Dor仲瞓左3粒中，當堂做只滾貓，laah手架...
Dor Dor今晚罕有地坐沙發，Dor Dor好大只喇!
Dor Dor同細個時好大分別，但都係越來越令仔，hmmmm, i love you, dor dor.
祝聖誕節快樂! 25日再見!!
人如汪洋中一條渺小的船，近日看到非法難民在澳洲海域不能上岸，岸上的居民看著他們被怒海吞噬，活著和4亡只隔一海岸，無奈但現實。 生命可以擁有很多東西，但可以何其的脆弱，既然很多事無法掌握，不如珍惜所有!
生日和聖誕節有咩好做? 愛和被愛 lor
福山雅治 「Sandy」﹕
又要出trip，次次出trip都好miss 佢地...
Dor Dor 咁惡既...Dor Dor 個樣cool D...
嘩....out fo...好puzzled咁..
豬噹面上的黃毛仔多左，名副其實「花面猫」...
豬噹黐人功力越來越了得，媽好開心呢!
嘩....好似bear緊我bor...
突然覺得佢地越來越大個樣....上次出trip兩星期，發覺Dor Dor的毛變黑了；今次又出走兩星期，回來後他們又長大了，hmmmmmm,係時候要訂糧
18號再見喇，回來兩天，20號又走，24號才回來呢.....先祝大家聖誕節快樂、冬至暖 lup lup....
一首令我安靜的歌，福山雅治 「ひまわり」 ﹕
好奈無update個卜，又忙又懶(真架)...有時間走去uniqlo買3，買完攰4，查實公司多野做，瞓覺少左，所以今晚寫完卜，就早D瞓...
今日仲係噹豬和Jaw Jor 9個月生日，佢地一日比一日大喇...
豬噹坐定定好令架，係阿娘都覺自己仔女令，哈哈!
幾4正，可遇不可求呢....
e，典解淨係得豬噹? Dor Dor 令樣今期少喔! 豬噹有時都中2坐响度。
不過亦有mischief 既時候，以前灰貓飲我奶茶，e+豬噹飲普洱...
Dor Dor 11月開始瞓貓兜和士多啤梨屋，佢地好富有，有樓貓呢...
一時咁瞓...
中2 就調轉瞓....
今晚開始轉涼，估佢地中2瞓，趕都5走...
瞓吧! 又食又瞓，快高長大!
NHK大河ドラマ「龍馬伝」オープニングテーマ曲
白龍王告訴世人，如果要改變命運，首先要改變脾氣。脾氣臭，連健康都有影響。
脾氣怎麼改變？佛家說放下，道家說養生，儒家說中庸。蘇東坡三家學說都精通，在他被貶黃州的時候，有很大的開悟。在他的著作中，他說，一個吳姓老人傳授了一個養生訣，就是「和」、「安」二字。「安則物之感我者輕，和則我之應物者順，外輕內順則生理備矣」。安，是指心態，心安詳地關注着在一個群體中的我，關注着這個我給對方的感覺；物，第三者，是指除了我以外的所有人；輕，因為我心沒有對抗性，所有人都感覺到了，於是與我相處的時候沒有壓力，覺得容易溝通，不是好像一塊硬屎。這是人家對我的感覺。而我對其他所有人，所有事，則抱一個順字。客觀環境不到我們控制，像一條激流。順，是道家的思想，如果孔子和老子一起掉下河裏，他們兩個人會有什麼不同的反應？孔子會拼命逆流而遊，掙扎着要回到原來的岸上，如果力有不逮，就只有被激流沒頂。老子則會放鬆身體，順流而下，待到了一處平坦的河道，便施然上岸。
老子順其自然，孔子則是一個控制狂，把一個本來沒有簡板的空間，劃分成各種禁地，這叫畫地為牢。控制狂者為自己家人制定了各種戒律，所有的人都必須照戒律生活，直到把人人都變成罪犯。「外輕內順則生理備矣」，如果可以內外都柔軟輕順，便沒有脾氣，生命便興旺。
白龍王與世人結緣幾十年，只在進醫院前接受了一次訪問，想來，他是預知時間已到。他說：「在我幾十年的歲月裏，有許多事情、語言感動了我，所以我也很努力地想辦法讓人感動。感動是一個愛心、菩薩心、菩提心，看到好人好事，要能感動，看到人家得到好處，要歡喜。」有些人看到人家得到好處，便心生妒忌，人家的好處又不是從你的口袋掏的，妒忌什麼？白龍王說：「人的一生都在學習做人，學習做人是一輩子的事，沒有辦法畢業的。」即使是同一個道理，今天明白了，到明天可能已經忘記，人對事物的理解不是一條直線，不是一通到底，而是曲線向前的。白龍王說：「人生第一要學的是認錯。」人常常不肯認錯，凡事都說是人家的錯，我們在社會上不時會遇到這樣的人，在家庭中也可能有這樣的成員，甚至自己根本就是這樣。遇到這樣的人來算命，問事業、問前途、問家庭或者婚姻，白龍王只是回答：「你的脾氣好不好？」沒有人是完美的，而人生的完美是從懂得認錯開始。「第二是學習柔和」，心腸硬的人不快樂，也不長壽，好像人的牙齒，人的牙齒是堅硬的，舌頭是柔軟的，人老了，牙齒先掉，但柔軟的舌頭到死也不會掉，對人柔軟是為了對自己慈悲。「第三要學習忍」，忍一口氣風平浪靜，退一步海闊天空，忍一忍，時間自然解決一切，有了忍，可以認清世間的善惡。還有「學習溝通、學習放下，也學習生存」，意即要保持身體健康，不但為自己，也是為家人和朋友。
（嚴浩）
福山雅治「 あの夏も 海も 空も」 (2007) live
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後記﹕對上文深有同感，再看樓下....好多事可以let go....
Five Regrets of the Dying
1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.
It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.
2. I wish I didn't work so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.
By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.
3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.
We cannot control the reactions of others. However, people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, but in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to themselves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.
When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.
Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly.
Choose happiness.
老細病了1星期，又懶又攰，無update個卜，e+好番喇，多謝Yuki、小苗和Maggie的問候!
哈哈...噹噹在vet時幾驚慌...無計，既然不用他們生育兼且會健康D，desex是遲早動作!
手術完了，下午帶他們回家，傷口有DD紅，阿噹就無mud事，又食又玩，大佬就gau豆D，好夜先食野...
大佬仲大細眼，那天晚上想，大佬一直大細眼就失真了，不過我想，只是藥物反應，沒有太擔心.，果然第2天就回復佢雙淺藍眸...
上星期四、五，天氣寒冷又落雨，阿噹開始瞓佢張床，中2用我在長洲買的平安包包做枕頭，實行私有化，e+下午和晚上都瞓下...
兩個瞓床時，Dor Dor見到我手機，好奇擰住頭黎睇, 好Q...
佢地瞓好最安心，瞓多D，健康D，我病都可能係瞓得少...
呢張是媽很喜歡的，Dor Dor現在3.9 kg，雞噹e+係3.6 kg，vet說可以treat佢地係成貓，即係無長糧，3餐食完就算，否則會太肥。
我就好中2呢張，哈哈...5似兄弟bor，但好fd，兄弟情就好夠!
兩日前放工，見拉車買貓貓用品，就買了個士多啤屋佢地，豬噹又係第1時間私有化，阿jor jaw玩兩野，又5玩...
不過底部輕左DD，容易反轉，噹噹豬一用力過猛，就會碌地沙，第1次自己起5番，要我幫佢，e+自己攪掂，仲踢間屋移位
老細最後沒有看醫生，自己開頭吃了西藥，後期吃中藥多，驚西藥好散，結果阿伯叫我食antihistamines，我見病了1 星期都仲有尾，姑且聽他吧，哈，吃了2顆就好番哂喇。
不過我發現檸檬加鹽加熱水，超好味，可減輕傷風中肌肉酸痛，e+好了，才覺病了是如何痛苦...
鄭秀文「不要驚動愛情」﹕
